
Privacy Concerns in Social Media
Wednesday, April 22nd, 2009
This is the second post inspired by a networking training I attended last week. An attendee pulled the instructor aside pre-class and said that she hated networking, and was only in attendance due to her career consultant’s insistence. It was a classic: “I hate you, you hate me, stay out of my face.” I found this immediately gripping and engaging. Who isn’t interested in watching someone take on one of her greatest fears? (see reality tv…Fear Factor, Biggest Loser, etc.)
As the session moved along, the instructor asked this attendee if she was using LinkedIn. She said she was not. Why not? She had reason to believe that a former co-worker was using it for gossip. She mentioned this as if it made sense. I don’t know where to start here, except to say that this is CRAZY! Unless you are retired, a fetus, or otherwise not in the job pool, you should be on LinkedIn. In fact, I would argue that retirees should also be out there “just in case” they wish to get back into part-time work, not unheard of these days as retirement account balances plummet. Nearly everyone I know signed up for LinkedIn very soon after being laid off, if not before. I encourage everyone I know to get out there regardless, job seeking or not, and to continually expand their networks! I have been out there for a while, since pre-layoff, and it has certainly helped me in my search. More importantly, it will help me in my next search.
Back to this person in my training session: I am a big believer in “live and let live.” How you chose to live is none of my business if it doesn’t impact me personally. However, even I could not hold my tongue on this one. I believe I let slip, “I’d rather be gossiped about, than be unemployed for the next two years.” I felt bad for pointing out what should be obvious, but this was really necessary. Clearly, her career consultant has been unable to effectively communicate the dire job market of today. She needs to understand that we are all doing things that are not in our comfort zone. During break, I did speak with her about personal privacy, and this reminded me that I wanted to comment about my own privacy concerns.
I am an incredibly private person. My former co-workers likely know little about my personal life. They may not know what town I live in, nor where I went to school, etc. They certainly don’t know details about my medical history, relationships, or basically anything that is considered my beeswax. I generally like to keep my personal life personal, so I can relate to this person’s concerns over privacy. As you can imagine, writing a very public blog about a sensitive topic (job loss, and job search), is not always easy for me. I also have my resume online, my LinkedIn profile entirely public, and generally my life wide open across many sites. It’s weird to be so open about my needs, and it’s hard to ask for help. And yes, it is possible that someone will read this and gossip about it. In fact, I’m counting on that. Gossip away, tell your friends, tell your cats. Just remember to forward them my resume, ok? If it gets me closer to landing the perfect job, then gossip as much as you want.
On the practical side, privacy settings exist for a reason in most social media sites. I set them appropriately, and so should you. If you don’t want to be open to the world, you don’t have to be. Be smart about it, protect your contact information when you can. But don’t hide from the world, this is not going to help you land a job.
Hey, Joe Rogan, I signed up on LinkedIn, did I win the $50k? Fear was not a factor…
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This is the second post inspired by a networking training I attended last week. An attendee pulled the instructor aside pre-class and said that she hated networking, and was only in attendance due to her career consultant’s insistence. It was a classic: “I hate you, you hate me, stay out of my face.” I found this immediately gripping and engaging. Who isn’t interested in watching someone take on one of her greatest fears? (see reality tv…Fear Factor, Biggest Loser, etc.)
As the session moved along, the instructor asked this attendee if she was using LinkedIn. She said she was not. Why not? She had reason to believe that a former co-worker was using it for gossip. She mentioned this as if it made sense. I don’t know where to start here, except to say that this is CRAZY! Unless you are retired, a fetus, or otherwise not in the job pool, you should be on LinkedIn. In fact, I would argue that retirees should also be out there “just in case” they wish to get back into part-time work, not unheard of these days as retirement account balances plummet. Nearly everyone I know signed up for LinkedIn very soon after being laid off, if not before. I encourage everyone I know to get out there regardless, job seeking or not, and to continually expand their networks! I have been out there for a while, since pre-layoff, and it has certainly helped me in my search. More importantly, it will help me in my next search.
Back to this person in my training session: I am a big believer in “live and let live.” How you chose to live is none of my business if it doesn’t impact me personally. However, even I could not hold my tongue on this one. I believe I let slip, “I’d rather be gossiped about, than be unemployed for the next two years.” I felt bad for pointing out what should be obvious, but this was really necessary. Clearly, her career consultant has been unable to effectively communicate the dire job market of today. She needs to understand that we are all doing things that are not in our comfort zone. During break, I did speak with her about personal privacy, and this reminded me that I wanted to comment about my own privacy concerns.
I am an incredibly private person. My former co-workers likely know little about my personal life. They may not know what town I live in, nor where I went to school, etc. They certainly don’t know details about my medical history, relationships, or basically anything that is considered my beeswax. I generally like to keep my personal life personal, so I can relate to this person’s concerns over privacy. As you can imagine, writing a very public blog about a sensitive topic (job loss, and job search), is not always easy for me. I also have my resume online, my LinkedIn profile entirely public, and generally my life wide open across many sites. It’s weird to be so open about my needs, and it’s hard to ask for help. And yes, it is possible that someone will read this and gossip about it. In fact, I’m counting on that. Gossip away, tell your friends, tell your cats. Just remember to forward them my resume, ok? If it gets me closer to landing the perfect job, then gossip as much as you want.
On the practical side, privacy settings exist for a reason in most social media sites. I set them appropriately, and so should you. If you don’t want to be open to the world, you don’t have to be. Be smart about it, protect your contact information when you can. But don’t hide from the world, this is not going to help you land a job.
Hey, Joe Rogan, I signed up on LinkedIn, did I win the $50k? Fear was not a factor…
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